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Ever
struggle with making decisions? I sure
do. Recently, someone came to me for
advice on making a pretty big decision in their life, and I want to share with
you a key thought that came out of the conversation.
Here it
is: have more confidence in God’s shepherding ability than in your decision
making ability.
When
making decisions, I often hear, “Well, I’ve prayed about this and I believe God
wants me to….” While this is often
sincerely stated, sometimes it is merely a tagline to justify a decision and
try and quiet any criticism. Often, the
decision was really made before the prayer was even uttered. The reality is that we can deceive ourselves,
and we are masters at using “prayer” as an excuse for making poor decisions. The issue is not as much our external
manifestations of submission (such as seeking advice or praying), although
these are important, but our internal willingness to truly be wherever we can be
of most use for the glory of God despite what circumstances that might
bring.
Let me
say that again more plainly. The issue
is with the heart. Am I really willing
for “God’s will to be done” regardless of the circumstances that might bring so
long as it brings him glory?
Sometimes
when making decisions, we pray and pray, and hear nothing, and sense
nothing. Sometimes a decision has to be
made. Sometimes, we are still unsure
after having searched the Scriptures, praying, and seeking advice. Sometimes, we have to move. And yet, as we prepare to move, we are
terrified that we are making the “wrong decision.”
Other
times, we just know that we are doing the right thing (or so we think). We move with little thought, little prayer,
and little counsel. Looking back years
later, we realize that we were not walking as closely to God as we thought, or
possibly, we nailed it and were in the “zone” so to speak.
Either
way, our confidence is in a redeeming shepherding God. While God’s will in particular circumstances
may seem very unclear, God has already stated clearly in his word his desire to
use us to glorify his name and spread his gospel to the nations.
So,
here’s a tip. If we truly, with as much
of our heart as we can, want to be wherever God wants us in order to be used
for his glory in promoting his gospel, then we can have great peace in the
midst of that decision.
Asking God to place us in whatever circumstance will give him glory and promote the gospel is a prayer that we can have 100% confidence that he will answer. When this is sincerely our heart’s desire, we can have great peace. If this is the disposition of our hearts, then we can have great confidence, because God is the gracious Shepherd and a good Father (Ps 23; Matt 7:11). He will guide us.
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Thanks Adam. This is convicting and so freeing. In the past (and sometimes still) I have often found myself paralyzed in these big decisions. Not only am I an expert at deceiving myself, but times when I felt my heart was "right" I would become paralyzed because I was waiting for an audible voice from God and/or a burning bush scenario. The book Decision Making and the Will of God was helpful, but I think more teaching in this area would be awesome. I think lots of Christians struggle with decision making. Thanks for sharing.
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